Thought for the day: Don’t just be someone’s “option”

My lovely friend, Sarah, mentioned this quote to me and I can’t seem to get it out of my head. Don’t be someone’s “option”, when you can be someone’s “one and only”. This quote has so much truth to it…it shockes me.

I feel so many times we go for the people who lead us along only to realise we are an option incase one of their others backfires. How is that fair? Please explain that to me. Why is it we all settle for being second best…or third best… when in we SHOULD only want to be someone else’s first choice without any doubt?

This goes for both guys and gals. If you like someone…but they like someone else and keep dragging you along…why put up with the emotional drama that goes along with it? It can’t be healthy. Don’t allow yourself to be a pawn in someone’s love game. Every single one of us deserves only the best…and deserves someone to appreciate them for who they are. NOT, “oh this one didn’t work out…I guess I will go to the next option”.

I understand there is always that exception to this scenario. Maybe you have a crush on your bestfriend, but your bestfriend has no idea that he/she likes you back until one day…LIGHT BULB! If you are patient enough to wait around for your bestfriend…and risk your emotions then that is fantastic. More power to you.

I don’t care how long you have been single…or how amazing you think a certain person is…or how much you fancy a specific human being. If they play with your mind and lead you on. YOU ARE BETTER THAN THAT!

I can only hope that this opens someone’s eyes to a real issue they are dealing with. and remember…YOU ARE WORTH IT! Don’t doubt yourself. Someone out there see’s you as their NUMBER ONE CHOICE. You just have to find them 🙂

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  1. Stephanie

     /  November 7, 2011

    You are so right on the money here! Maybe you should post this one for all teenagers, especially the young ladies, to read! 😉

  2. Not sure if she only did part of the quote but as I read…”Don’t may someone your priority while treating you as an option”…treating someone like an option is so disrespectful to the soul…check my website and what a virtuous relationship is then your head will spin…LOL


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