Thought for the day: Five things I won’t compromise on

Having a typical girl/life/boy chat with my girl Wendy.

(Seriously people…without her I would die…she helps me keep my head on straight)

We got on the conversation about my love life…or lack there of.

When we were talking I came upon the conclusion that when I decide to date someone…I need to make sure they have four basic characteristics to them that I should never compromise on.

These are the five factors I have decided I need and can’t live without.

1. Religion. I can’t date someone who has the complete opposite religious beliefs as me…that will make things complicated come later on in the relationship.

2. Family man. I need a guy who WANTS to have a family one day. I want to be a mommy…that has been my dream since I was little. I need a man who wants a big family…and loves children as much as me.

3. Supportive. I need a guy who supports all my ridiculousness. Such as me wanted to audition to be a Disney Princess. I need someone who will support me like I will support them.

4. Similar motivation level. I need someone in my life who has goals and does everything he can to obtain them. I need someone whose motivation level is similar to mine. That way we are on the same page when it comes to what to do with our relationship and such.

5. Trust. This is a big one that most people easily have on their top five. I want someone I can trust with my entire heart…and they trust me with theirs. I can’t do the dishonesty or the lack of trust on their behalf. I need someone who trusts me as much as I trust them.

All of these things I will now have on my list that will remain in the back of my mind when dating people.

If you are missing one or so of these factors… I am not saying I won’t still give you the benefit of the doubt.

I still have to remain a little realistic or I will never have a date…ever…LOL.

However, for a potential hubby…I need all of these things. 🙂

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  1. Sarah

     /  April 26, 2012

    Seeeee, I told you we needed a list like this. My neighbour wasn’t joking around.

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